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artisan, backing books, brown paper packages tied up with string, Castledawson, Dale Chihuly, good with their hands, Memoir, mother daughter relationship, my mother, rural Derry, Rust Belt, Seamus Heaney
artisan
NOUN
a worker in a skilled trade, especially one that involves making things by hand:street markets where local artisans display handwoven textiles, painted ceramics, and leather goods
The arrival of a brown paper package tied up with string last week set me ruminating on words about ways of living that appear to be creeping back into our lexicon – ”vintage,” “organic,” or “artisanal.” Redolent of superior quality, the “master artisan” has always conjured the likes of Antonio Stradivari or in more recent times, the brilliant Dale Chihuly, whose stunning glasswork appeared to grow right next to cacti in the Desert Botanical Garden, transforming it forever for me. It also brings to mind the master cobbler I first encountered in a shop in Florence, Italy. I can still see him, bent over a supple piece of leather, hands moving deftly as he shaped it in the form of a shoe that would invariably grace the foot of a tourist. In retrospect, he was not unlike the men and women whose artisanal handiwork imbued the rural County Derry where my parents grew up. As a matter of economic necessity, they were “good with their hands” and frugal too. Thus their farming, knitting, dress-making, baking, turf-cutting, and roof-thatching was shaped by and shaped the villages and towns in which they lived. The poetry of Seamus Heaney is peopled with such artisans as the solitary,
quiet Thatcher, who “snipped at straw and sharpened ends of rods/ That, bent in two, made a white-pronged staple/ For pinning down his world, handful by handful,” leaving his rapt spectators “gaping at his Midas touch.”
Somewhere in Heaney’s notion of “pinning down” one’s world, a handful at a time, art and living surely converge. Far away from Derry, in a world that might not be so different after all, the Rust Belt of the United States is the backdrop for Carlo Rotelli’s Good With Their Hands: Boxers, Bluesmen, and Other Characters from the Rust Belt. Within it, he explores the symbiotic relationship between the artistry and the environments of an unlikely lineup including bluesman Buddy Guy, pugilist, Liz McGonigal, and former New York city cop turned movie-producer, Sonny Grosso. Like the turf-cutter, the thatcher, and the blacksmith of Heaney’s poetry, these too have honed the “deceptively unsimple virtue” of being good with their hands. Their handiwork is forever inextricably bound to their worlds.
For years, my mother has been sending me brown paper packages tied up with string – boxes filled with Antrim Guardian newspaper clippings about people I used to know but might not remember, chocolate for my daughter, the obligatory three or four packets of Tayto cheese and onion, and always something for me to wear. (This last is typically something for which she paid entirely too much, and something I really don’t need, but she always dismisses me with a “it’s just-something-to-throw-on”). My husband has always been bemused by the brown wrapping paper and the string, but what he doesn’t realize (and my mother may not either) is that, by all accounts, consumer demand for her type of handiwork has gone rather mainstream. At any moment, we are but a few clicks away from artisanal gift-wrapping, jam-making or the knitting of very complicated Aaran sweaters, all of which she has practiced and perfected since childhood. I have knit only twice in my life. The first time, I had to produce a pair of slippers for Domestic Science class. Seriously. I remember it took forever to cast purple stitches on fat grey knitting needles, and then there was the daily grind of “knit one, purl one,” until those ugly slippers were finished. My mother intervened of course, but her neat rows of stitches were too obviously different from mine, and she didn’t want me to get in trouble. Which I imagine I did. I have no idea what would have possessed me to undertake knitting a second time, but years later, I knit a sweater (mostly by myself). So impressed with my handiwork, I even wore it out a time or two. Alas, it literally fell by the wayside as we made our way to Slane Castle on the warm July afternoon of Bruce Springsteen’s Irish debut. That was the end of the knitting for me, but my mother only grew more skilled, taking on increasingly complex patterns, her needles clicking ever more rapidly it seemed.
My mother’s first job was in Crawford’s shop in Castledawson, and that is where she learned, among other things, how to wrap a tidy parcel in brown paper and string. As she had learned to bake and sew by watching my grandmother, so she watched Jim Crawford skillfully wrap parcels for the customers. Soon she was expertly preparing packages of sweets and biscuits for those who wanted to send a taste of home to relatives across the water, Mrs. O’Connor, whose daughter was in England; Jim Crawford himself had devised a way to tie newspapers with string so they could be easily mailed to relatives far away in Australia. I imagine one such newspaper will be making its way to me soon – my mother believes she still has the knack for it. She is quick to remind me that all this wrapping and knot-tying was long before there was any such thing as Sellotape (Scotch Tape) so sometimes she would use a seal wax over the knotted string.
Years later, when my mother was home with us, one of her favorite jobs was “backing books.” By the first day of school in September, she had saved brown wrapping paper for this special task. Anyone from my part of the world will readily acknowledge that our teachers were very particular about the way our books were backed. There was definitely an art to it, and so naturally it fell under my mother’s bailiwick. She could barely wait for September when my brother and I would get our new school books for the year. I can still see her waiting in our kitchen in the house on the Dublin Road, brown paper and scissors ready. Each book she placed carefully in the middle of a sheet of brown paper, and with a few quick snips, folds, and tucks, she had it covered, ready for us to write our names on the front. I remember one September, because my mother was ill and in the hospital, I had taken it upon myself to back my new history textbook. Of course I couldn’t do it right. Like so many things, this was something my mother had made look so easy, but unlike my mother I had not learned by watching. It was impossible for me to get the brown paper neatly under the spine at both ends, so I gave up and went to school, book un-backed. For my sins, I was subjected to a memorably sarcastic tirade from a teacher who clearly cared not about the fact that my mother lay in the Royal Victoria Hospital in Belfast. She may as well have been on the other side of the world in those moments. Over thirty five years later, I can still feel the flush of embarrassment on my face. I have never forgotten or forgiven his lack of sensitivity. I am sad to report that I was reminded of it once more, just five months ago when a teacher was inexcusably cruel to my daughter – in front of her classmates and in spite of knowing that while he casually broke her spirit, her mother was recovering from cancer surgery.
Perhaps being good with one’s hands is somehow connected to being in good hands. Handled with care. A hand-wrapped parcel from Crawford’s shop was done right and with great care. There was heart and craft in it. It was in good hands …
Love the photo of Crawford’s shop.I can clearly remember watching from my pram as the local butcher wrapped parcels of meat in brown paper and string. I had forgotten that I remembered till now!!
Deb
Oh Deb, in your pram!!! That’s amazing. Reminds me of this Heaney poem:
The Nod
Saturday evenings we would stand in line
In Loudan’s butcher shop. Red beef, white string,
Brown paper ripped straight off for parcelling
Along the counter edge. Rib roast and shin
Plonked down, wrapped up, and bow-tied neat and clean
But seeping blood. Like dead weight in a sling,
Heavier far than I had been expecting
While my father shelled out for it, coin by coin.
Saturday evenings too the local B-Men,
Unbuttoned but on duty, thronged the town,
Neighbours with guns, parading up and down,
Some nodding at my father almost past him
As if deliberately they’d aimed and missed him
Or couldn’t seem to place him, not just then.
Yvonne, what a wonderful post with such beautiful memories. You have skilfully brought to life a way of life and people that are very close to my heart too. I had forgotten about the art of covering our school books in paper – we used old wallpaper offcuts for ours. You have also reminded me that my own mother regularly sent brown paper packages to my sister who lives in Australia, including cadbury’s chocolate, teabags and of course the obligatory packets of Tayto. SInce she died last year, my sister must be missing Mum’s lovingly prepared packages, so maybe it’s time I dug out the brown paper myself and took over the tradition.
Oh, Marie, your sister would love it, I’m sure. There’s nothing like seeing a brown paper parcel sitting on top of my mailbox … sometimes I hate to even open it because I know how long it must have taken her to fit everything in just so. Teabags, walnut whips, cadbury’s fruit & nut have all made their way here too
You’ve got me thinking about wallpaper. Now there’s a whole other post …
Brilliant. Brings to mind the lovely ‘Grandma’s Hands’ by Bill Withers. Wonderful post. Thanks. And WHERE did you get that picture? Fantastic.
Isn’t it a great picture?!? I had to hunt high up and low down to find it because I couldn’t write about brown paper packages without picturing her learning how to do up a parcel in that shop. Do you not have any pictures of ma from long ago??
PS – Didn’t you ever have the benefit of the more premium brand flock wallpaper backings that were de rigeur in the early 80s?
Oh, I DO have a memory of books backed with wallpaper – but did it not make the book very thick?? i think Mrs Clarke used wallpaper. Was ma not strictly a brown paper woman??
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Thanks so much for including me, Marie. Looking forward to reading all of these later today. How do you ever keep up??
Yes, your mother’s wonderful skills seem suddenly fashionable! As someone incapable of ‘backing’ a book properly, I stand in awe!! Love the story of those love-filled packages.
I just wish I’d paid more attention to all the things she could do, when I was growing up! I took so much of what she did for granted, and now it seems I’m making up for lost time by making sure I write it all down for my own daughter.
“In good hands” speaks to much, much more than just the packages. Your mom sounds like a real gem, and reading this made me miss my mom, who was a gem as well.
Indeed she is a gem, Nancy. I don’t know if I commented before, but I remember being struck by your description of your mom as someone who has never met a stranger and could talk to anyone. That’s my mother, too. As long as I hear her voice on the other end of the line, I know I’m in good hands. It must be so hard to be without your mom. I’m sorry.
Yvonne, I loved this post. We, too, wrapped our books in brown bags from the local grocer and I had forgotten that! Continue to photograph your mum’s packages. I think that’s beautiful. I’m picturing a wobbly brown-wrapped package balancing on top of a mailbox!
PS I’m sorry your daughter suffered through the insensitivity of that teacher!
Thank you, Renn. We’ve been quite ingenious in our covering of books!! This morning, my brother and Marie reminded me that wallpaper served as a great backing as well
When my daughter told me about that incident, I was blown away both by the teacher’s treatment of her and the fact that she said it made her think of my history book story For better or worse, “a teacher never knows where his influence stops.”
What a wonderful tribute to a caring mother, Yvonne. As a daughter of a mother who was also gifted with creative hands, I’m touched by this post in so many ways. I’ll never forget cruel remarks made to me in front of my classmates in fifth and eleventh grades. Those words cut through decades of time. If teachers only knew the power of their words on impressionable young students. May you always be in good hands. xx
Thank you, Jan. I have spent almost my entire life in a classroom, in one way or another. Too often, we underestimate the impact of a casual comment, a smart-aleck remark, or a more intentional put-down. I am sorry to hear you were subjected to it. At the same time, I have to say I’ve seen and continue to see the noblest expressions of humanity in my profession. Every single day. Isn’t that something?
Yvonne I have enjoyed this blog so much , you would never believe what memories this has brought back to me. I know it is much harder to write about than for me to do it. I will have to send you a newspaper when i get a minute and see if i can still do it, All my love ma xxxx
Oh I am glad … make sure to tell me about those memories, so I can add them
I knew you would rise to the newspaper challenge, ma.
xox
My mother knit wonderfully and my daughter knits beautifully. They both knit prodigiously. i have crocheted a number of afghans, but my knitting is confined to dish clothes. Must have skipped a generation.
Ah, but without the knitting, you have so much more time to create beautiful poetry, Lois.
Yvonne, this is beautiful. Artisanry, working with my hands, is a subject near and dear to me. It’s always felt so much bigger than itself, to make something, to transform bits and bobs into a thing beyond mere usefulness. It reminds me of part of a poem I posted recently by Adrienne Rich, called “Transcental Etude” –
‘Vision begins to happen in such a life
as if a woman quietly walked away
from the argument and jargon in a room
and sitting down in the kitchen, began turning in her lap
bits of yarn, calico and velvet scraps,
laying them out absently on the scrubbed boards
in the lamplight, with small rainbow-colored shells
sent in cotton-wool from somewhere far away,
and skeins of milkweed from the nearest meadow–
original domestic silk, the finest findings–
and the darkblue petal of the petunia,
and the dry darkbrown lace of seaweed;
not forgotten either, the shed silver
whisker of the cat,
the spiral of paper-wasp-nest curling
beside the finch’s yellow feather.
Such a composition has nothing to do with eternity,
the striving for greatness, brilliance –
only with the musing of a mind
one with her body, experienced fingers quietly pushing
dark against bright, silk against roughness,
pulling the tenets of a life together
with no mere will to mastery,
only care for the many-lived, unending
forms in which she finds herself,
becoming now the sherd of broken glass
slicing light in a corner, dangerous
to flesh, now the plentiful, soft leaf
that, wrapped round the throbbing finger, soothes the wound;
and now the stone foundation, rockshelf further
forming underneath everything that grows.’
xoxo, Kathi
Kathi,
Thank you so much. This poem is such a beautiful gift. I can plainly see the woman in the kitchen as she begins “turning in her lap
bits of yarn, calico and velvet scraps.” Like yourself, I think there is a kind of transcendence in taking bits and pieces and turning them into something that is art. As you do so brilliantly “with pen and camera.”
Thank you
y
Yvonne what beautiful words creating images of the past and filling them with the love each stitch or fold of paper was made with. Good with your hands maybe not with knitting needles but certainly a pen.
Beautiful
Ruth!! So lovely to hear from you!! I thought about you as I wrote this and all those dresses you used to make. I can see you, as if you were standing next to me, in that blue dress you made for the formal all those years ago. You made it look effortless, because – as my mother said countless times “Nobody has hands like Ruth.”
xox
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