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I Don’t Actually Like Sports. I Like People.
Click to get new essays for free My friends are asking why I keep writing about World Cup football. They know me after all. It’s a fair question because I’m not really writing about football. I’m writing about people. Which is probably why I’ve always loved great sports writers, even though I don’t really love sports. They’re writing about hope, failure, obsession, redemption, identity, grief, joy – all the things the rest of us spend our lives trying to make sense of. The setting just happens to be a baseball field or a soccer pitch or an American football stadium. The game is just their canvas. I’m sure these writers…
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dog in the headlights
For Dog Rescue Day “And it is exceedingly short, his galloping life. Dogs die so soon. I have my stories of that grief, no doubt many of you do also. It is almost a failure of will, a failure of love, to let them grow old—or so it feels.” — Mary Oliver Edgar came into my life one October morning that now seems so long ago. It wasn’t. There he was, standing in an already busy intersection on 16th Street right before the sun came up. We had just left the gym when my daughter spotted him, alerting me to that fact by screaming at me to stop the traffic…
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Unscripted
Tin – Still it Shines. “… Like the tree-clock of tin cansThe tinkers made. So long for air to brighten,Time to be dazzled and the heart to lighten.” ~ Seamus Heaney I filled out the online dating profile the way I once filled out my patient history forms during breast cancer treatment – carefully, not entirely convinced it was really about me. Age. Location. Gender. The beginning of a version of myself I could scroll past. Each field waited with bureaucratic calm, as if life had always been this sortable. Widow. I paused there longer than I expected to. There was a dropdown menu for everything that could be reduced to…
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All around, mama.
I used to think the hardest part would be balancing everything. It wasn’t. It was the leaving. For years, women like me were encouraged to “have it all,” which in my experience looked like learning how to walk away from what I loved every morning and do it convincingly. A new mother, I was not yet fluent in that language, holding a career together with one hand, my child with the other, and the rest of you braced against the nearest wall in a daycare parking lot, practicing a show of strength that mostly involved not crying until you were safely back in the car. When it was time for…
